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Selfishness – to act in your self-interest – is not immoral. It is necessary for survival. To breath is selfish; to eat is selfish; to love is selfish; to live is selfish. Everything that is good for you is in your self-interest. No one can survive without selfishness; no one can take care of themselves without acting in their own self-interest.

A morality of rational and healthy selfishness means to act in your self-interest without hurting anyone, and to respect other people’s right to do the same. Each and every individual exist for his/her own sake and has the right to live his/her own life. You do not exist for your own sake if your duty is to serve others. Without the right to act in your self-interest you do not own yourself and cannot live your own life. A morality of self-interest gives you the right to be free and do what you want with your life instead of being a slave.

To sacrifice others is not in your real self-interest. A ruthless criminal destroys his own life. Real and healthy selfishness does not mean to be dishonest, narrow minded, short-sighted and rude. It means to live a good and healthy life; to be happy and achieve your own values.

To make self-sacrifice the moral ideal means that humans should be sacrificed. You are a member of the human race, thus to sacrifice yourself is to sacrifice a human being. And to sacrifice other human beings is the other side of the same coin. Self-sacrifice and immorality goes hand in hand. Those who want self-sacrifice to be the moral ideal want to justify human sacrifice.

People who want power don’t want you to be selfish because they want to control you. Selfish people follow their own mind instead of obeying a dictator. A dictator’s goal is to turn people into puppets who blindly obeys his wishes, and the altruist morality of self-sacrifice makes it easier to achieve this goal. People who believe they should sacrifice their own interests and serve others can easily be controlled.

The wishes and the selfishness of the individual must appear as nothing and submit,” declares Hitler in Mein Kampf; a man must “renounce putting forward his personal opinion and interests and sacrifice both.” (Leonard Peikoff, The Ominous Parallels, p.68)

Evil people get more power when good people are willing to give up their own interests. Evil people can only be stopped if good people are selfish. It is only rational and ethical selfishness that can prevent irrational and unethical selfishness. The altruist morality of self-sacrifice makes it easier for immoral people to get what they want. The only way to stop them is to protect your own interests. Don’t support your enemies. It is immoral to support immoral people. Do yourself and society a favour: be selfish!




“Contrary to popular opinion, all healthy individuals are selfish. Choosing to pursue the career of your choice is selfish. Choosing to have children—or not to have children—is selfish. Insisting on freedom and individual rights, rather than living under a dictatorship, is selfish. Indeed, even ordinary behaviours such as breathing, eating and avoiding an oncoming car when crossing the street are selfish acts. Without selfishness, none of us would survive the day—much less a lifetime.” – Michael J. Hurd

 

Healthy SelfishnessRachael & Richard Heller: Healthy Selfishness – Getting the Life You Deserve Without the Guilt. It´s time to claim what everyone deserves: “A life in which you are appreciated, given consideration, understanding, and support – and most of all, a life in which you are free,” according to Drs. Richard and Rachael Heller, best-selling authors, professors, and counsellors. “We are not advocating selfishness; we are advocating healthy selfishness, a self-concern for those of us who are tired of spending our time and energy indulging others.” Are you uncomfortable asserting such a reasonable right? Many people are. Caught up in a culture of self-denial, they trudge through life without joy or hope. Healthy Selfishness serves as a personal coach for the self-sacrificing, a guide to help release you from feelings of emotional isolation, devaluation, and silent anger by taking you step-by-step up the ladder of change and self-reclamation.

Loving Life

Craig Biddle: Loving Life; The Morality of Self-Interest and the Facts that Support it. Loving Life demonstrates that morality is a matter not of divine revelation or social convention or personal opinion—but, rather, of the factual requirements of human life and happiness. Biddle shows how a true morality is derived logically from observable facts, what in essence such a morality demands, and why it is a matter of pure self-interest. “…challenging, informative, thoughtful…. Loving Life is a fresh voice of reason…. Very highly recommended reading….’ —The Midwest Book Review. “…clear, simple, and…succinct…. The author performs effectively the difficult task of taking abstract moral principles and concretizing them for intelligent individuals who have little or no prior knowledge of philosophy.” —The Intellectual Activist. “From start to finish, Loving Life engages the reader with its lively conversational style.” —The Ayn Rand Bookstore

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"To love is to value. Only a rationally selfish man, a man of self-esteem, is capable of love – because he is the only man capable of holding firm, consistent, uncom-promising, unbetrayed values. The man who does not love himself, cannot value anything or anyone.” – Ayn Rand

Rational egoism is the only morality that is for human life; thus, it is the only morality that is actually moral. Those who choose to be rationally self-interested thereby make the most of their life – and they are morally good because of it.” – Craig Biddle

It is only on the basis of rational selfishness – on the basis of justice – that men can be fit to live together in a free, peaceful, prosperous, benevolent, rational society.” – Ayn Rand

Healthy selfishness brings with it a zest for living that is astounding, a joy that comes from truly experiencing – deep within yourself – your accomplishments and a pride in your ability to determine how you will be treated by those around you, no matter how important they are in your life.” – Rachael & Richard Heller

The essence of altruism is the concept of self-surrender and self-sacrifice. It is the self that altruism implicitly regards as evil, since selflessness is its moral ideal; it is an antiself ethics.” – Nathaniel Branden

To be healthfully selfish is to respect your needs and feelings, even if others do not. Especially if others do not." – Rachael & Richard Heller